1 of 2 · c. 615–628 CE · the years of exile · Abyssinia
Umm Habibah — Ramlah bint Abi Sufyan رضي الله عنها
Alone in Abyssinia
Ramlah was the daughter of Abu Sufyan ibn Harb, a chief of Quraysh who for twenty years would lead its resistance to Islam. Yet she accepted Islam early, with her husband 'Ubaydullah ibn Jahsh — the brother of Zaynab bint Jahsh — and when persecution grew, they emigrated together to Abyssinia. There she gave birth to a daughter, Habibah, and became known as Umm Habibah, "the mother of Habibah".
Then, far from home, her husband left Islam and became a Christian, and he died in that state. Umm Habibah was left a widow in a foreign land with a small child. Her father was at war with the religion she had chosen, so she could not go back to him; her husband had abandoned that religion; and the Prophet ﷺ was far away in Madinah.
She held on to her faith. Of all the hardships the early Muslim women bore, few were as lonely as hers.
Umm Habibah's faith did not depend on her father, her husband or her homeland; when each of them failed her, it remained.
If the people around you turned away from your faith, what would keep you holding on?
- Ibn Hisham, al-Sirah al-NabawiyyahHistorical report
- Ibn Sa'd, al-Tabaqat al-KubraHistorical report
- Ibn 'Abd al-Barr, al-Isti'abHistorical report
- al-Dhahabi, Siyar A'lam al-Nubala'Historical report
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